Ruth Pearl, Mother of Murdered Reporter Daniel Pearl: “It’s Easy to Dehumanize. For Them Danny Was an Object.”

From a New York Times obit by Clay Risen headlined “Ruth Pearl, Mother of Murdered Reporter Daniel Pearl, Dies at 85”:

Ruth Pearl, the mother of Daniel Pearl, a reporter for The Wall Street Journal who was brutally murdered by Muslim extremists in Pakistan in 2002, thrusting her and her husband, Judea, into the global spotlight, died at her home in Los Angeles….

Mrs. Pearl, who was born in Iraq, was a retired software developer living in Los Angeles when Daniel, 38, The Journal’s South Asia bureau chief, was kidnapped while reporting in Karachi. Despite pleas from his parents and desperate efforts to win his release by the U.S. government, his kidnappers beheaded him on Feb. 1, 2002, recording a video of his last words — “My father’s Jewish, my mother’s Jewish, I’m Jewish.”

Daniel’s murder came just months after the terrorists attacks of Sept. 11, 2001, and the subsequent invasion of Afghanistan by the United States and its allies. His murderers singled him out because he was American and Jewish, a fact that many observers said underlined the particularly virulent threat posed by Islamic radicals.

At first, the Pearls tried to avoid the news media, releasing statements and speaking to a small number of reporters.

They opened up later in the year to promote a book of Daniel’s journalism to announce a foundation they had established in his name. They appeared on talk shows…but the experience was difficult — while they wanted to talk about his legacy, many reporters and talk show hosts wanted to dwell on his murder.

“We want to keep our privacy,” Mrs. Pearl told The Los Angeles Times in 2002. “We don’t want our pictures in the paper. We want to deal with our grief in private. We don’t want to be talking about it.”

In 2003 the Pearls published “I Am Jewish: Personal Reflections Inspired by the Last Words of Daniel Pearl,” which included essays by Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Kirk Douglas and the Nobel laureate Nadine Gordimer. Mr. Pearl said that his wife, who did most of the editing and contributed an essay, considered it her greatest accomplishment.

“Like many generations before us, we are now embarking on a new war against anti-Semitism and fanaticism,” she wrote. “Driven by the vision of Danny — a proud Jew who continues to inspire people with his values and dignity — we will win this war, as did our ancestors for many generations.”

In 2007 they were back in the news with the release of the film “A Mighty Heart,” based on a memoir by Daniel Pearl’s widow, Mariane Pearl, and starring Angelina Jolie and Dan Futterman. That winter they attended the White House Hanukkah reception, where they lit their family’s menorah.

Eventually the attention died down, and the Pearls were able to focus on their foundation’s charitable efforts, which included fellowships for Muslim journalists, university lecture series and an annual music festival; their son, in addition to being an acclaimed reporter, was a classically trained violinist.

But Daniel’s murder continued to haunt them, and not only as a memory. Though his killers had been quickly arrested and sentenced — one to death, three to life in prison — they became causes célèbres in Pakistan. High-profile efforts to win their release quickly gained traction, and the Pearls stayed engaged with the proceedings.

In 2020, a Pakistani court overturned the murder convictions and reduced the sentences for kidnapping to time served. The Pearls, through a lawyer, appealed, as did the Pakistani government; the Pakistani Supreme Court is scheduled to consider both appeals later this summer.

In a video the couple released in June 2020, Mrs. Pearl, who by then was struggling with respiratory problems, appealed to the Pakistani people to support their efforts.

“There’s not a single day that we do not miss our son,” she said.

She was born Eveline Rejwan on Nov. 11, 1935, in Baghdad….

Eveline was 5 when a failed coup led to an outbreak of anti-Jewish violence across Iraq. In what came to be known as the Farhud, Jewish-owned stores were ransacked and at least 179 Jews were killed. Her family hid in their home for days, protected by Arab neighbors, who told would-be looters, “There are no Jews here.”

Soon afterward the family moved to a suburb, but the violence continued. Joseph was beaten while riding his bicycle, resulting in the loss of vision in one eye; he later had to bribe a police officer to free his two sons after their arrest on false charges. Others were less lucky. Mrs. Pearl recalled seeing the bodies of Iraqi Jews hanging from gallows in a square.

“Growing up as a Jewish child in Baghdad,” she wrote in “I Am Jewish,” “left me with recurring nightmares of being chased by a knife-wielding Arab in the school’s stairway while 2,000 schoolmates screamed hysterically.”

In the late 1940s she worked with an underground Zionist movement that helped Jews sneak into British-controlled Palestine. As part of her preparation to do the same, she began to use the Hebrew name Ruth.

In 1948 her brothers were smuggled into Israel, then newly independent, and in 1951 she and the rest of her family — her parents and two sisters — followed them as part of a mass exodus of Iraqi Jews.

Mrs. Pearl served in the Israeli Navy before attending Technion — Israel Institute of Technology, where she studied electrical engineering. It was where she met Mr. Pearl.

The couple married in 1960 and moved to New Jersey to pursue graduate degrees….In 1966 they moved with their three young children to Los Angeles, where Mr. Pearl taught at the University of California, Los Angeles, and Mrs. Pearl worked as a software developer.

Mrs. Pearl had retired by the time of her son’s murder, and afterward she threw herself into running the Daniel Pearl Foundation. Her grief drove her, she said, but so did her memories of growing up in Iraq, and her desire to counter the hatred both she and her son had encountered.

“Dehumanizing people is the first step in inviting violence like Nazism and fascism,” she said in a 2014 interview. “We have to do our share, and that’s the part that’s the most difficult to get people to realize. It’s very easy to dehumanize. I’m sure the killers of Danny had no sense of identifying with the humanity that connects us. For them Danny was an object.”
Also see the Washington Post obit by Emily Langer headlined “Ruth Pearl, seeker of justice for her murdered journalist son, Daniel, dies at 85.”

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