Barbara Costikyan: New York food columnist and writer of guides on how to cook and entertain.

From a New York Times obit by Emma Goldberg headlined “Barbara Costikyan, New York Magazine Food Columnist, Dies at 91”:

Barbara Costikyan loved traipsing around New York City for fresh foods, often taking her children along in search of homemade feta from Astoria, Spanish sausage from East Harlem or fresh herring from the Lower East Side. When she divorced her first husband and needed an independent source of income, she turned her love of food into a job.

Beginning in 1980, she wrote the Underground Gourmet column in New York magazine. The column, created by Milton Glaser and Jerome Snyder, sought to democratize quality food by not covering restaurants where entrees exceeded a particular price; when Ms. Costikyan took over the column, that price was $6.95 (about $22 in today’s dollars). . . .

She was loath to give a bad review and often reached out to restaurant owners to offer advice. Sometimes, as was case with the Manhattan Mexican restaurant Caramba!, she would come back and give those places another try.

Ms. Costikyan described her approach as fueled by empathy. “I can’t think about food without thinking about the people who do it,” she wrote. “It is, after all, a very human enterprise. People prepare it with love for other people to eat.”

Barbara Virginia Fatt was born on Dec. 25, 1928, in Manhattan to Arthur and Virginia Finder Fatt.Her father, a son of Eastern European immigrants, was a founder of Grey Advertising; her mother was a homemaker. Her parents hosted parties for guests like Henry Ford and David Sarnoff, and they taught her that the key to a successful gathering was good food and great wine.

She gained a reputation for her own dinner parties after marrying Andrew Heine, a lawyer, serving guests like Steve Allen, when he was the host of the “Tonight” show, and members of the psychedelic rock band Jefferson Airplane. When she hosted comedians, her friends cautioned her not to make too many jokes, because she tended to upstage them with her wit.

During her second marriage, to Ed Costikyan, an adviser to New York politicians, she hosted fund-raisers for candidates, including Edward I. Koch before he became mayor of New York. . . .

Ms. Costikyan wanted her knowledge of food and hospitality to go beyond her home; she wanted to write. She worked her way up from the mailroom at Curtis Publishing to be an editor at Esquire magazine, writing and editing lifestyle articles on topics like scuba diving and rodeos.

In 1982 she wrote “Be Kind to Your Dog at Christmas,” a children’s book about holiday traditions.

As a food columnist for New York, she spotlighted beloved New York establishments like Barney Greengrass and Sarabeth’s. She also wrote guides on how to cook and entertain and how to troubleshoot problems, like a stove breaking on the day of a party. When this happened to her, she heated a ham through multiple cycles in the dishwasher.

“That ham was really good,” her son, Jonathan Heine, said. “Way more moist.”

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